Frequently Asked Questions
What are your certifications?
I graduated from Rutgers University with a Bachelors in Marketing Communications. I am also a Certified Professional Life Coach and Energy Leadership Master Practitioner through the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) which is endorsed by the International Coaching Federation.
Are you a matchmaker?
Nope. I teach you how to find your match on your own. You know far better than I what you want and your energy dictates what you attract.
What do you mean my energy? I’m not too thrilled about my love life. Does that mean my energy sucks?
It simply means that the more you focus on all of the reasons why you are not thrilled about your love life, the more evidence will be shown to you by the universe to support that viewpoint. It’s Law of Attraction, a universal law just like gravity. It states: “that which is likened to itself is drawn.” When we focus on what “is” (reality, lack) instead of what’s wanted (LOVE, JOY, ABUNDANCE) we invite more of what “is” into our lives. It’s nice to know we have the power to think our way to a better life.
So how do you help people shift their lives?
I won’t bullshit you. YOU are in charge of YOU. So what you give to the process is what you get. Your intense desire for a better love life is what’s needed. You must be at a high desire level. You can’t be rolling with a “take it or leave it” attitude about love of self or others. You must want this! Those who go all in see shifts within the first week after their first LoveQuest session but they stick with it and DO THE WORK!
I don’t wave some wand and poof find you a partner or heal your current relationship. I help you to get to the root of what is really going on, so, you can be, do or have anything you want. If you come to me ready to go all in with yourself and have an open mind, are willing to do whatever it takes to help yourself clear the mental clutter and untangle the knots so you can shift, then yes, you will see a major change FAST!! I help you to pay more attention to what raises your vibe than to what doesn’t.
What do you mean “raise my vibe?”
There’s low vibe, mid vibe, and high vibe. You learn more about this in the LoveQuest Coaching program. If you are low vibe about love, then love (or anything you want) won’t come. Your low vibe thoughts will repel it. Or you may attract someone who is also low vibe which can be emotionally damaging. LoveQuest Coaching raises your vibe by helping you to become more aware of your emotions as trusted guidance for how you feel and what your point of attraction is.
When you make feeling great top priority, you become more conscious of how you react to life’s bullshit so you can begin to attract less of it. The higher your vibe, the better you attract. LoveQuest Coaching helps you to reach for more powerful thoughts that serve you and invite in the very things you want to manifest.
Ok let’s say I want to do this. What can I expect?
Regardless of whether you are single or in a relationship, if you go all in with LoveQuest Coaching and really commit to yourself; you’ll fall in love with yourself and will transform your life. I’m serious. You’ll be profoundly changed. Specifically, you can expect to master your ability to call yourself out on your own negative bullshit that’s been holding you back from all you deserve. You can expect a greater sense of self-worth, ease and flow to your life. You’ll feel and see that you are on a path and feel optimistic and purposeful in your life.
You can expect me to ask you pointed and empowering questions that help you tap into what you already know deep within yourself. You can expect to go very deep within yourself and truly be your own truest love. You’ll silence your inner shit-talker and replace it heightened intuition and deep gut sense of knowing. More certainty! More POWER!
You can expect to lose friends and gain new ones. You can expect to become more aware of how much of an asskicker you are in your life and how the universe truly has your back. You can start to have true confidence and live authentically with a metaphorical double barrel middle finger to anyone or anything that hinders your happiness. You can expect to learn to love yourself unconditionally on such a high level, that you will take full responsibility for your happiness and in doing so will be more kind, patient, tolerant of others (without sacrificing yourself for anyone else’s bullshit and self-imposed limitations).
You can expect a clearer, forward moving life delighted by what you attract each day. You can expect to quickly understand why you attract what you do and swiftly pivot from attracting negative to positive. You can expect to feel like a total BOSS, CEO of your life.
What’s your take on therapists, psychiatrists?
When my marriage was spiraling out of control my first husband and I went to a marriage counselor. Their background was psychology. They helped us see why we were in our pit of shit. However not much was done to get us out of the shit pit. It wasn’t sustainable. Looking back, I wish we had attracted a coach either in addition to or in place of therapy. A coach would have instantly seen that we loved each other and just wanted a way out of the pit of shit. A coach would have helped us to see our codependency and where it was rooted in so that we can claim full responsibility for our own happiness and create a new life that we both agreed on with a plan to move us towards it. So now I get to be the coach I wish I had when I was single at 25 and married at 35.
When I was healing from the double whammy emotional asskicking from my divorce and end of a rebound relationship, I hired a therapist. I was in a bad way emotionally, couldn’t eat, sleep, focus on anything. I even lost my job at the time. I needed to look out for my mental and emotional health so instinctively I knew I needed someone to explain what was going on in my mind and how to heal.
I experienced the value of both a therapist who shows us WHY we are the way we are and coaches who help move us towards where we want to be.
Are you in therapy still?
No. However, if something profoundly rattled me and made it so I had anxiety or panic attacks, dropped weight because I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep then yes, I would totally book more sessions with my therapist to have my mental health on point.
What would you say is the easiest way to attract, give and keep love?
Elevate your consciousness and love yourself first, most, best and always. Make your happiness and peace TOP PRIORITY. Treat yourself as you would someone you love. Give yourself the love you want from another. I’m serious. No one will love you more and better than you can love you. Once you step into self-love you won’t live a conditional life. You’ll be free of trying to control outcomes and people to satisfy you. You’ll change the way you relate to the world. You’ll attract a situation and think, ok, what did I do to attract this, what am I supposed to learn from it, and how can I shift my thinking to bring me to a better feeling place?
How long does a LoveQuest Coaching program take, what’s involved and what’s the investment?
The longest immersion is 90 days ($3600 usd), there’s a mid range immersion which is 45 days ($2000 usd) and then there are one-off 60-Minute Power Sessions ($250 usd). I also have other special offers and customized packages at any given time to take advantage of. To learn more, begin with complimentary 30 minute LoveQuest Assessment Call.
Your 90 Day Customized Coaching Immersion includes:
Up to 12 one on one full hour coaching sessions done via phone, Skype or Zoom and are recorded for you to keep.
Customized “Soul Work” designed to move you forward in between sessions.
Ongoing access to me between sessions to via text, FB Messenger, email and your own private LoveQuest Google Doc with customized questions
designed to move you along in your LoveQuest journey.
$3600 (usd) Investment
The Power Session:
60-minute one on one “Power Sessions” are done via phone, Skype or Zoom so you can experience what my coaching can do for you.
I will waive the $250 Power Session fee for any “fast action taker” who is a fit for the 90 Day Full Immersion and enrolls at the end of the Power Session call.
Who is this for?
People dealing with break ups, divorces and other relationship issues they would like to resolve quickly.
People who see repeated dating patterns and are ready and determined to take focused committed action to break them.
People, who want to take massive action, go all in on themselves and move towards solutions and can’t stand wallowing in self-pity feeling stuck.
People who search for solutions, read, listen to podcasts or YouTube videos which led them to this website, and take responsibility for getting unstuck in any aspect of their lives.
People who want positive change and want it NOW!