A lack of self-love shows up in our lives in many different ways.
There’s people pleasing, where you give, give, give and attract those who take, take, take. Eventually you are wallowing in self pity, feeling like a powerless victim full of pent up resentments and jealousy.
There’s also the external validation where you think you’re “bad” if you don’t work hard enough, marry the right person, be perfect to be loved. This constant feeling of “not enough-ness” bleeds into one’s ability to attract and thrive in a healthy relationship.
Codependency, self-abandonment, mistrust, narcissistic behaviors, depression, anxiety, lack of control, anger, insecurity, fear, self-sabotage, procrastination, stagnation, and even addictions are often common.
When we don’t know how to soothe, nurture and care for ourselves with compassion and kindness, we look outside of ourselves for our well-being. This renders us powerless.
If you’re not loving yourself first, most, best, and always, you will constantly live the exhausting conditional life trying to manipulate situations and people to make you happy.
Self-love is more than massages, margaritas and shopping sprees. Some people are so lacking in self-love that they feel completely trapped in their lives because they are disconnected from themselves.
In this program you will:
Gain self-confidence, self-respect, a positive attitude, and control over your life.
Start to deliberately create your life as opposed to simply reacting to what goes on around you.
Identify the area(s) of your life you want to focus on improving.
Identify what has held you back and shift the mindset plus actions to create new beliefs and positive habits.
Gain independence and clarity making decision making easier.
Learn how to master self-care and radically change your self-talk.
Learn how to assert yourself from a place of certainty, awareness and love for self and others.
Learn how to establish boundaries
Understand your own power and make the relationship between you and YOU the primary relationship in your life, forever.
Understand the Law of Attraction, how it works and how to use it to manifest what you want.
Understand how to create a new adult relationship with parents, siblings and friends.
Set goals and be held accountable achieving small steps towards them.
Start to feel awesome and fired up about every day as you now enjoy the journey!